Pets Provide Many Developmental Benefits To Kids

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Having a pet is usually a rite of childhood. Whether it is a hermit crab or gold fish, a dog, cat or horse, children enjoy the companionship offered by animals. Did you know, however, that not only can pets be a source of warm, fuzzy entertainment, but they can offer several developmental benefits to children as well? A child’s physical, social, emotional and cognitive development can all be encouraged by interaction with the family pet.

Physical

“Pets provide an impetus for running and practicing motor skills,” says Sheryl Dickstein, Ph.D., Director of Humane Education for the ASPCA. Walking a dog or running in the yard and throwing a ball are great ways to exercise the dog as well as for children to get away from sedentary indoor activities and move around. Small motor skills can be encouraged by allowing children to scoop food and pour water into dishes, and by helping to groom them. Depending on the child’s age, parental supervision is recommended for both the child’s and the pet’s safety.

Social

For children especially, pets can be wonderful social facilitators. Children are more prone to approach and interact with another child who is playing with a pet. In this way, a pet can be the bridge between a less socially outgoing child and other potential playmates.

A pet itself can be a social object for children because of the nature of their relationship. “Because animals accept us for who we are, pets give some practice in a social relationship,” says Dickstein. Carlie Van Willigen’s five-year-old son Murphy is developmentally disabled, and until the family got a dog two years ago, his mother reports that he never really noticed his surroundings. That changed when the dog came into the house.

“For a while, he didn’t seem to even notice the dog, until one day he was running through the kitchen and skidded to a stop in front of the dog and started petting her. Eventually, he began throwing his ball and the dog would fetch it and he thought that was the greatest thing.” Van Willigen sees their dog as one of the catalysts that helped Murphy learn that there is a world outside of himself and his own needs.

Emotional

Pets can facilitate various aspects of emotional development such as self-esteem and a sense of responsibility. Says Dickstein, “As kids age and take on more of the care for the pet, it helps to build self-confidence.” She points out, however, that it is a misunderstood fact that pets teach children responsibility. “Parents teach responsibility,” explains Dickstein, “Pets just make a good vehicle for learning.”

The responsibility a child has for her pet needs be age-appropriate. At the age of three, a child can help to fill food bowls. By five, he can begin to take on some basic grooming tasks as well as to help clean the pet’s living area. As children reach the mid-elementary school-aged years, they can begin walking a dog independently, and as the teen years approach, the child will most likely be able to take on the bulk of the responsibility for a house pet. Keeping pet-oriented tasks age-appropriate is not only necessary for the safety of the pet, but for the child as well — both physically and emotionally.

Cognitive

As children grow, they may develop an interest in a specific type or breed of animal. Encouraging children to read about their favorite pet or to take part in obedience classes with a parent and the pet can all encourage a child’s cognitive development as it sparks the desire for learning. Bringing the child along to a veterinarian appointment will give him a chance to ask questions about proper care and his pet’s health.

With proper supervision, allowing children to research information about their pet on the Internet is another way they can learn about the pet’s special needs and unique characteristics as well as to correspond with other owners of the same type of pet. If your child’s desired pet is a horse but you live in a second-story apartment, encourage your child to research horses anyway. Even if they can’t have the pet of their choice, the learning will be valuable to them anyway.

Pets as therapy

Because of the special bond that often develops between pet and child, pets can sometimes fill the role of comforter. Since the relationship is non-judgmental from the pet’s perspective, a hurting child might be more willing to initially trust a pet than a person.

Karen Hawkins runs a healing farm in Maine where she welcomes both children and animals who are in need of healing. Having worked extensively with foster children, Hawkins has seen the wonders that pets can work in the lives of these emotionally scarred children. “Some of my foster children had little or no nurturing when they were young. Having them help me nurture orphaned wildlife gave them some personal experiences of how nurturing should have been for them. I saw angry, sullen and sometimes downright vicious children — usually teens but sometimes younger — slowly become softer and milder in their behaviors. They began to trust more. They learned to confide their secrets to the animals and eventually that made it easier for them to begin to trust me enough to confide in me.”

Brining a pet into the family is not a decision that should be made lightly. It first must be a commitment by the parents, not the child, as they will ultimately be responsible for the pet’s welfare. Once that commitment has been made, however, and an appropriate pet has been found for the family, the joys and benefits of the pet relationship will last for many years to come.

We have many kid-friendly animals here at the Humane Society of Central Arizona. As a mother, I understand the importance of a new pet getting along with your kids. Most people feel that only kittens and puppies can be adopted to a family with kids, but this is not always the case. We have animals here that used to live with kids and actually get very excited when kids come in to the shelter. That is why it’s important to not rule out adopting a pet that is older.

Visit us at 605 W. Wilson Court (just south of Main Street); open Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Saturday from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m.; Tuesday and Thursday from 1:30 p.m. to 5:30 p.m.; closed Sunday. For more information, call (928) 474-5590 or see our Web site at www.humanesocietycentralaz.org.

FOREMAN

Foreman is a 4-year-old Redtick hound. He is kid-friendly and gets along with other dogs. Foreman is pretty laid back and has tons of friends. He has been around kids as young as 3 years old. He would love to go to a home with kids that he can cuddle up with at night.

BEAR 

Bear is a 4-year-old Lab/Shepherd mix. He is pretty easygoing and likes to hang out. He is very affectionate and friendly with kids. He loves when they give him attention and he showers them with kisses. Bear enjoys going for walks and would love a home where he can curl up beside you and just hang out.

CHEWIE

Chewie is a 3-year-old Heeler mix. He has lived with kids and loves to spend time with them. Chewie loves to play ball and is pretty active. He gets along well with other dogs and would make a great addition to a family that has kids and other dogs that he can play with.

OREO

Oreo came from a home with other cats, dogs and kids. She is a fun girl who loves to play. She gets along with everyone and would do great in a home with kids. Oreo has been with us for some time and she is ready to find her forever home.

LEVIN 

Levin came from the same household that Oreo did. She is super-affectionate and loves everyone. Levin loves when kids come to visit and she will crawl in their lap just to be petted. She is still young and loves to play. A home with kids, cats or even dogs would be OK for her.

SERENA

Serena is a super-affectionate cat who loves everyone. If you have come in and spent any time in the middle cat house, you probably know her. She is very outgoing and is not shy to demand some TLC. Serena would do well in a home that has kids. That way she has someone to cuddle up with.

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